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Concerned_bee

I’ll be willing to bet that ‘small’ by those women’s standards is 5-6 inches, which is average not small. But the men asking the questions are on about 2-3 inchers and too dumb to realise the pickmes still like bigger dick compared to them.


europoor24

yes lowest would be 5-6inches. any lower is a horrible experience


MarchesaCasati

...and at that size, they need to have *girth*. In my younger days, one guy did have that length but, it was so skinny it looked and felt like a finger. So weird...


monch-bred

Just my luck that of the handful of guys I have had sex with, 2 of them had literal micropenises 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️


Hmtnsw

I think the smallest I've had was 4. 4.5". One of the best fucks honestly. Dude made up with technique for what he lacked in length. I don't expect all smaller guys to fuck on that level nor bigger dudes who think having a big dick is all that matters like technique isn't important.


Muffcakelord

Thing is, there's many factors to sex and people keep pretending it's all black and white. Smaller dick or bigger dick has no correlation what so ever with a person's interest and motivation to be a good sex partner. I've had sex with what can be unpleasantly big ones but since they were attached to generous lovers it was amazing, meanwhile people keep saying "oh if he's big he just won't do anything cause he thinks that's it" or "if he's small he will make up for it" I think all sizes can be amazing lovers to the compatible partner, and everyone has different preferences etc so it's weird af how they keep getting stuck on size. It's like they admit to never paying mind to anything but the piv part. They tell on themselves hard by never responding with any other aspect they can bring to the table and continuing to fight us on size preference


Hmtnsw

I agree. That is why I say "motion of the ocean is more important than the size of the boat." Dude with the smol dick was really into me and we got along great out of the bedroom too. He wasn't insecure about his size at all and it showed. >meanwhile people keep saying "oh if he's big he just won't do anything cause he thinks that's it" or "if he's small he will make up for it" Well, that's said because those people probably had both (such as myself). I've had big and small ones that were good and both that were awful- hence size doesn't matter imo, as long as it isn't micro because knowing myself I do like PIV and prefer real dick over dildos. Some women don't care about PIV and a good fingerings or eating (I like those too) will suffice and that's OK.


Muffcakelord

>hence size doesn't matter imo, as long as it isn't micro because knowing myself I do like PIV and prefer real dick over dildos. So size does matter to some people and that's totally fine, too, everyone's very different. It's not even as simple as "size doesn't matter", it's more like "what matters is entirely subjective" and the spectrum of possible features that matters is very wide. It's hard to explain for me, sorry


Hmtnsw

That's literally what I just said- size doesn't matter IMO and it does for others and that's fine. >and the spectrum of possible features that matters is very wide. Aesthetic as a person wise and dick wise, I absolutely agree.


ferociouslycurious

For me it was 3”. Seriously how is that even possible 😂It was SO bad.


Hmtnsw

Idk. When I saw it I was like Oh shit.. this isn't going to work out. But he surprised me. Like hot damn. Reminds me of a story my friend told me. She said she got with a guy whose dick was like the length of her thumb and she was like, there is no way that's gonna do anything. At that point, just have mad finger and eating game.


geoffersonstarship

Every time I thought small I would think 5 inches lol


Fuckdoesithurt956

I see so many women posting "my bf/husband watches porn of women who look nothing like me am i being insecure" and the comments rallying "yes you are go to therapy" 🙄 i'm just gonna start telling men with small dicks to go to therapy. It's better they accept themselves than be lied to.


Zurflu

Can you imagine the meltdown that would ensue if one day all of the "ladies does size really matter?" posts just got hundreds of comments saying "you're insecure go to therapy" instead of ego stroking? Imagine what the IRL news channels would look like that night... rampages everywhere probably


Concerned_bee

Those men telling us to go therapy for being insecure because of porn would foam at the mouth at the mere thought of their girlfriend watching porn with a big dick.


radical__daphne

A few ladies have dome that and reported the guys LOST THEIR MINDS.


WafflesTheDuck

Thanks for the idea. Lol


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Most of them do need therapy; they are angry beyond reason.


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True. I encountered a horde of them yesterday. The truth is their enemy for some reason.


rawwwrrrgghh

Imagine a man posting that his girlfriend/wife watches porn with super big dicks and he feeling insecure about it? Wanna bet who would be roasted? I start with 100 billions on the woman.


Zurflu

At the very least, the response would be "she clearly is only into bigger dicks than yours, you should leave her before she starts cheating". But if a man only watches porn of women of a different race than you are? Don't be insecure....


Fuckdoesithurt956

I've literally seen exactly this and 100% she gets roasted for being insensitive


Equal-Ear2312

petty men with small dicks do very strenuous mental gymnastics to blame women for whatever reason. "Muh penis" is always an afterthought in there. it's omnipresent, it's their religion. I had men who confessed they wanted to date me because I have small hands and thin fingers and told me that their penis would look bigger in my hands. ​ >sir, I am not touching that! get away from me! I wonder if they would choose catheters when they're bedridden by the same standards.


rawwwrrrgghh

😂 oh god someone must do a sketch about that


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give_mefries

Meanwhile I come across at least one “boobs or ass guy” comment on front page of reddit every day and nobody seems to downvote those🙄 because of course women can’t have standards or preferences


radical__daphne

One of us needs to make a throwaway account and start talking about "I'm a length and girth girl. How about all you ladies in the comments?" Post to unpopular opinion.


Inspection-Critical

God, that sub's a circle jerk. Most of the opinions on that sub are misogynistic and mainstream, but for some reason the OPs think they're clever and breaking new ground.


radical__daphne

"Unpopular Opinion: women need to shut up and have no boundaries" So fresh, so new. 😒


Hmtnsw

"If you ain't an anaconda remote control, I don't want to sit on you."


radical__daphne

"if you don't have an anaconda, my pussy don't want none, Bum.


ButterfliesHurricane

🤣🤣🤣


radical__daphne

Title: "Unpopular opinion: big is beautiful"


ButterfliesHurricane

BBD: big beautiful dick?


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give_mefries

Absolutely. When I was a pickme I used to say size doesn’t matter even though I didn’t mean it. We’re taught to be always cautious about hurting men’s feelings. But men are brutal about nitpicking and tearing down women’s confidence so fuck em.


jugularlemonade

Me too. I remember feeling like I had to tell this one guy that his tampon sized dick was good when in reality he was laughably bad in bed.


Equal-Ear2312

> I used to say size doesn’t matter even though I didn’t mean it. ikr? we are so pressured since being teens t accept boys and men as they are. they're fat and guzzling lard? we have to say they're big and round and strong. but if a woman is fat, then men just tear into her. and not only men, women too. a boy with pimples? a man with visible acne scars and orange peel skin? meanwhile women spend $$$$$$ on cosmetics,dermatologists and whatever treatments (retinoids anyone?) at the cost of their fertility and long-term organ health because they've been coerced into internalizing male-gaze and sexist rhetorics into their daily life discourse. I have to accept his shit-stained butt but I have to bleach mine and make it smell like roses? fuck nah. no more coddling men and boys. he's fat? tell it to his face. he stinks? tell it to his face. or simply block and delete.


give_mefries

You are absolutely right. No more coddling, only spitting facts and moving on.


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give_mefries

Yasss go get it 👑


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purasangria

B-b-b-but that would require EFFORT! /s


VorpalSingularity

These are the same men that have been pushing that stupid "dad bod" bullshit. They're pudgy and their gut is eating their dick but demand women look like airbrushed supermodels IRL. The audacity.


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ayyymelees

I'm the same way. Everyone is allowed preferences and i root for women who dont accept anything less. Nonetheless as someone with vaginismus I get kind of scared of big dicks and I hate when a guy expects me to be all over him for his size. Like cool, you got a big dick, can you actually pleasure me though rather than constantly bragging about it during sex? Lmao


Pistachio_Queen

I agree and I think OP is assuming all women prefer it when that's really not the case. I'm not small (5'8) yet my vaginal wall (?) or whatever it is must be more shallow than normal, because when even an average sized guy fucks me it hurts. If he's over 7 inches I can't even do it. I think women are just as varied as men in 'size', but ours is internal so no one pays attention to it.


Platipus6

Yeah they literally joke about re-arranging our organs as if it's an endless chasm in there. No sir, smashing my cervix is 11/10 pain so stop.


amberalpine

Me too. The best consistent sex I ever had with a guy he was maybe medium sized (?) But his dick curved upward just slightly and he could just get my spots like nothing else. Like he just knew how to use the thing and get me going. But big dick guys? I usually have to take some ibuprofen the day after and that's less fun for me, I don't like painful sex.


Eris_the_Fair

I've never experienced one that is too small to do the trick. I prefer average, because the guys with big ones have an ego about it and don't even try to get the correct angles for me.


so_lost_im_faded

Same. I also think while sexual pleasure is important, it's not all about the dick. We can prefer various sizes, but the guy still has to *try*. A big penis won't guarantee he doesn't suck in bed. If lesbians can satisfy themselves, if I can satisfy myself, then "but my pp small" excuse simply won't do. That's why I don't get why this sub places so much importance in a big penis, while the effort is what truly matters.


Endermiss

Hear, hear. And I'm not sorry to say that I _am_ a size queen - the man I'm with right now has a dick the size of my forearm. We affectionately refer to it as "ol shrimpy." I can't imagine stroking (_ahem_) some dudes ego about a four inch punisher.


Hhjjuuy

I think a lot of them really are honest. When you are having the type of bad sex that is not only uncaring but violent and painful by design small dicks *do* feel better ie less bad.


discochicken87

Lightbulb moment, maybe slightly too long would be perfect if the owners were actually romancing us and giving us adequate foreplay, so our bodies are actually prepared for intercourse.


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foreplay is super important and not just an add-on, it’s part of sex. Without lots of foreplay it ain’t gonna work.


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yes I know there are women who don’t like big dicks and that’s completely fine. I am not judging them. I am referring to the pickmes who constantly lie to coddle men and pretend that ALL women like small dicks.


relationship_reddit

Maybe, but a lot of them are just trying to protect men's feelings. I used to say size didn't matter, because I was with a man with a small dick and was just trying to be nice. I have had bigger now, and it absolutely does matter.


zombiessalad

The thing is, guys on reddit will be so goddamn picky about a woman’s breast size, nipple size, butt size, labia size, clit size, vaginal canal size, thigh size, waist size, hair length, amount of makeup, etc. Yet when a woman is picky about simply the length and/or shape of their schlong it’s blasphemy. The double standard is so fucking real…


JustSomeBlondeBitch

Have you ever seen one of the porn subs on here called bodyperfection? If a woman posts OC there they TEAR THEM APART. Telling them everything that’s wrong with them and how dare they have the audacity to post in a sub that’s meant for PERFECTION. It’s so grotesque. A bunch of virgins telling gorgeous women they’re not their porn sick idea of “perfect”.


zombiessalad

Ewww I have noooot, porn is super triggering for me so I have never had the strength to dive down into the sewers of this website lmao. That sounds so awful, but yet I am not surprised! Im sorry u had to see that bullshit🥺


kreutzwortraetzel

Reddit hates women ~~who say size matters.~~


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If you ever feel sorry because uwuwu he has some body image just check plastic surgeries statistics. If I remember correctly in 2020 95% of all plastic surgeries were performed on women meanwhile only 5% were performed on men. And now tell me who has harder time when it comes to beauty standards. So I personally don’t give a sh*t if scrotes cry about their bodies. Ever.


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Women are conditioned from birth to feel empathy for men. We are socialized and brainwashed into putting their desires above all. Life is so much better when you stop giving a shit about their feelings🖤


Geocities_SEO_Expert

Almost every woman will go through life with an inner preschool teacher in her head, constantly chiding her to always be respectful and always be considerate of everybody else's feelings. Most men apparently don't have this thing. Every bit of social instruction goes out the window once their balls drop, and it never comes back. I refuse to ever listen to that inner voice again, at least while dealing with men. It makes as much sense as trying to play an honest game of cards with the devil.


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It is something I have to actively unlearn. Being nice and agreeable just let’s men stomp all over you. All to often we make the mistake of thinking that men behave and think like us. They don’t. They don’t have empathy the way we do because apparently that’s not masculine. I only reserve that inner voice for women now 🤷🏽‍♀️


Southernbelllle

Gospel shit I had to learn over the past couple of years too. All men are guilty until proven innocent. Too much logic and practicality to not think that way.


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True. And if woman has some preferences then she is classified as a shallow bi*ch. Personally I love men who are tall - 190-196cm is the perfect height for men and I don’t feel sorry about it.


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Southernbelllle

I’m both proud and excited for them. 👑


dimsummer-

I was going to bring this up. There are countless stories of women getting boob jobs, butt lifts, lipo, nose jobs, etc to be more attractive to men (some of course do it for themselves but many do it either for a male partner or to be more attractive to men in general). (Edit - even freaking labiaplasty is a thing now....) Also, if a man says he's a boob guy or an ass guy or whatever no one gets angry at him. And those things don't meaningfully change the sexual experience for them. Meanwhile, if we want to have standards for a body part that is literally going inside us and can make a difference as to whether we experience good sex or not, we're just 'shallow' and my favourite, 'body-shaming!!!!!!'


fingernmuzzle

“I’m a dick woman” 👌


discochicken87

#girthgal


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They can literally get a surgery for it. When I was at plastic surgery clinic and I was flipping through prices I’ve noticed that my surgeon does penis enlarging surgery - and it costs like 4-8k (depends on technique). This is nothing if you compare it to the amount of money women spend on themselves to cater to current body standards. Don’t feel sorry for them. Ever.


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this and labiaplasty sound like a nightmare jesus. why anyone would get unnecessary surgery on their genitalia is beyond me that sounds horrid


PinturaMagnifica

Omg, that's it?? They spend that much on their computers and cars, ffs. 🤦🏻‍♀️


cakewalkofshame

An ex of mine has dick enlargement surgery. I found out way later after talking to another of his exes. I guess they take some fat from his body and jam it in there. Hilarious because he did not need it and it caused tears for me.


_RustInPiece_

Reports from the 🍤 dick brigade incoming in 3...2...1 Vile woman, how dare you decide what goes into your body? Setting boundaries as a female human being is literally violence./s BoDy ShAmInG ... welcome to the era of gendered thought crime. Scrotes and pickmes who complain like that give me rapist vibes. I wonder why.


EsotericKnowledge

"Body shaming!!!" they yowl, all the while picking apart the size, shape, color, proportion, etc of literally every single part of a woman's body and fetishizing specific ones or combinations, and making fun of/laughing at women who look a certain way, often publicly. When we complain about being chopped to pieces and objectified, "It's just a preference!! You can't control that!! It's not fair to shame people for their PREFERENCES!!" \*eyeroll


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Scrotes with small dicks who are angry that women don’t want them definitely give me rapey vibes. The creepy thing is you usually can’t tell who they are irl. You think you’re having a simple conversation with a scrote but inside he’s seething and resenting you….


_RustInPiece_

It's a learnable skill. You can never be 100% sure until the mask slips but most scrotes play are numbers game. So you just habe to make sure you take care of yourself to be considered "too much" or a "hassle". The trash takes itself out. As for online commentars I don't put too much heart into it. Like "On the internet nobody knows you are a dog"


ButterfliesHurricane

My vagina does not have an equal right to access to all, cheers!


sleepysiri

Most sex toys marketed towards women are big. They’re big for a reason. Size affects pleasure. Nobody enjoys a baby thumb.


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I recently had to return 3 toys in a row (unopened of course) because each time I was shocked by how huge they were haha. It's a lot more helpful to use sites where you can filter by girth as well. I'm definitely a fan of bigger sizes and give me all the girth please but apparently the average toy on the sites are HUGE/intimidating but they're top sellers as well so goes to show what women really like!


sleepysiri

I always use Lovehoney and I think the other one was Wild Desire or something cheesy like that? A lot of their products have ALL measurements including girth :))


Jaelismyhomegirl

I’m surprised more sites don’t give all the measurements. Seems like a really important detail.


sleepysiri

I usually find all the measurements on the sites I use? I really can’t complain lol!


CNhuman

I swear that some of these are too big for vaginal insertion, they must be intended for gay dudes.


Newwavesupport3657

“Nobody enjoys a baby thumb” that made me laugh. I love this comment 😂 so true


kittij0y

🤣😭😭 a fucking baby thumb I can't 💀 Also, completely true.


murdertoothbrush

I laughed a little too hard at this... 😆 well, actually it was an appropriate amount of laughter but now everyone in the break room is looking at me 😂


NotMyRealName814

"Baby thimb" Holy crap, the cat was sleeping on my lap and now she's pissed off cuz I'm laughing so much!


BrightPegasus84

I actually had the unpleasant experience of being with a guy, who I swear hated himself strictly because of the size of his dick. Which was his hang up cause I actually liked him. That being said fully erect this man penis was abut 3 and half inches. Slowly his toxicity started showing in his actions and it was all due to his feeling of inadequacy and no matter how much you stroked his ego, he was just so insecure. Safe to say that was a no go.


Optimal_Grapefruit_5

The same guys that cry about that also admit to preferring big boobs for better tit-fucks; thought they'd consider big dicks a fair preference. Never been with a big guy but I'm not going to tell women who like big dicks they're wrong.


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PinturaMagnifica

Wow, sounds like some major small dick energy to me. 🤣


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I was about to say, you're not seeing a hung guy making that response.


lostmillenia

Hahaha yes we can!


burritogirl101

Last time this topic came up, I had a scrote in my DMs who was "curious to know why I preferred 6 inches or above". He was polite about it but I obviously blocked and deleted. I'm not going to explain these things to a guy who is going to use it as wank fodder. Gross.


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Platipus6

Flaccid ones look like Dark Helmet from Space Balls though..


deep_faked_beans

I severely doubt there'd ever be a thread titled 'do bigger boobs matter?' and all the top comments are from men saying they don't and any man who says he does prefer bigger gets downvoted to oblivion. If they wouldn't do it for us, why should we do it for them? Their feelings aren't more important.


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THEY think their feelings are much more important. Kinda like their little dicks. Women aren't allowed to have preferences, that's for the mens-folk only, little ladies. /s


ButterfliesHurricane

Size affects pleasure and reaches more pressure points, it’s nothing to do with being loose. This has also nothing to do with the guy’s skills. He may or may not have great skills but at equal skill level, size makes a difference. What’s worrying is the societal pressure to shut women up always about anything they perceive as remotely negative. Downvoted and shamed for saying they prefer a more generous size, meanwhile, they are queuing at the plastic surgeon waiting for their breast augmentation. Same applies with height. Under a certain height as a woman you are not allowed to prefer tall guys (you are labelled shallow and ridiculous), they have set an arbitrary 2 inches difference that’s acceptable to them. All 5’2 must reserve themselves for 5’4 guys and lust over them to flatter their ego and give them a chance to be a player and get laid.... We need (as women) to be better at saying what we want / like / prefer and shut the conversation right there. Don’t accept their pathetic excuses / reasoning / endless requests to justify ourselves and prove that we are not discriminating. We should be able to say: I like tall guys who are decently endowed. I’ll leave that thought right here and walk away now. Bye 🖐


missdeerest

Tbh they shame tall women for wanting to be with men taller than themselves as well. They just want to find anything to shame us for and it’s just so stupid.


ButterfliesHurricane

Yes that’s very true and I also noticed some tall women are happy to go for shorter guys but that’s no good to them, they have a preference (!!) for women shorter than them (i.e whom they can dominate). Sigh we can’t win so we might as well stop caring!


Trillian_42_

I also can’t stand the “premature ejaculation is flattering” movement. No it’s not. It should be embarrassing for men. But these pick me’s out here really feel the need to tell everyone how their two pump chump is just amazing for them. I refuse not getting my orgasm.


Protoetype

Gay men aren't attacked for talking about how they like big dick and regularly talk about dick size freely. Oh geee, I wonder why?!


blue_dandelions

I’m unapologetic about liking bigger cocks, I can’t cum trough piv unless it’s of a decent girth & length. The vagina expands when aroused, men who shame women who are relaxed & get nicely wet are just insecure.


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The first man I dated complained because he didn't like how wet I got during sex. 🙄


she_is_munchkins

Same. The only time I've come through PIV is with men with girth and length.


_electrafire

Tbh, it’s because Reddit is for nerdy, socially awkward guys who are into TRP and lie to themselves


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Eris_the_Fair

>women are more likely to bounce /cheat /upgrade the more you mistreat them. MGTOW, red pillers, and incels are missing this key bit of information. If they had that level of awareness, they wouldn't need any of their man-o-sphere nonsense.


_electrafire

Since they don’t socialize and can’t gain info that way, they rely on the internet! That’s why they’re so out of touch


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It’s weird how it’s ok for them to say they like big boobs but women can’t say they like big dicks. Like which one is actually necessary for sexual intercourse?


FDS-GFY

Guys often say, regarding breasts, “more than a handful is a waste.” So I got a guy with bigger hands. 💀💖


sugarplumcutie

LMAOO


Sireyn

You are my hero! 💀😂 I have way more than a handful, which I can't do anything about unless I want to pay thousands for a reduction and deal with all the attendant healing and scarring that goes along with it. My extra large breasts may be a waste, dude, but only one of us is trash!


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Here’s my issue with the idea that “small dick men can make up for it in other ways”.. they don’t; they just as bad at oral as the average man..if they even bother. So if the choice is meh oral and a small dick or meh oral and a big one; I know what I’m going to choose.


TagTrog

If anything, I've found that guys with small dicks are less generous in bed and want to do anal and they want you to feel pain.


myeggsarebig

As someone who prefers girth over length -My vagina is just small - I do not ever feel the need to protect men from their feelings being hurt if a woman prefers a big dick. I prefer a long tongue and big lips. I’m not getting off on a short tongue, thin lips. If these men respected personal preference, and didn’t take it personally, and upped their game in other areas, We wouldn’t be having this discussion.


radical__daphne

I hate the oral can make up for it comments. No it fucking can't. You think a man would ever settle for that? It's so easy to get oral and a big dick.


Zurflu

There are so many things women commonly put up with that nearly any man would instantly leave a relationship over. That is one instance where we actually should "date like men" because men will drop you EASY if you don't meet their needs.


straightouttashtetl

Most of them can't even oral anyway. I was stupid enough to date a guy who was 3inches hard. He said this bullshit all the time. I broke it off because it didn't do anything for me. Fingers and oral is foreplay for a reason but they're not ready to talk about that.


she_is_munchkins

Giiirrrllll! You said it all


throwawayheh3

I can remember when i used to think like this because my ex who had a big dick ‘didn’t fit’ and ‘always hurt’ (ofc it will when there’s .2 seconds of foreplay before he attempts to put it in🙄)now i’ve had sex with guys who have big dicks AND know how to do it well and it’s a 1000 times better. Stay mad


Onextto0

yes this is exactly the reason. When sex is bad it's easier to just get it over with with a guy with a small dick, because at least it doesn't hurt.


UnforgettableBevy

Why did I instantly get "🎵🎶🎵I like big DICKS and I CANNOT LIE! 🎵🎶🎵" playing in my head? We could totally re-write it to Buddy's Got Dick. Some spoiler content for Patreon, perhaps???


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Platipus6

I like BIG DICKS and I can not lie You other ladies can’t deny When he slides on in with an itty bitty thing I just can’t control my FACE I feel SICK Gonna throw up (hurgh) cos I realised that pp was smol barf in the jeans he was wearing. I’m retching and I can’t stop gagging. Oh lordy I wanna get Raptured To end this torture.


Party-Promise-8840

Omg, that was beautiful 😆


radsera99

Men don’t even lie to protect their female partners feelings let alone women’s feelings in general. We need to be more honest with ourselves and men about what we find attractive.


Suspicious-Judge-380

My last relationship (and only long term one thus far) he asked me if he had a big dick... i was like “it’s average” and he got SO PRESSED. this was over a year into our relationship. he definitely knew it was average, and probably would have gotten mad no matter what my response was. ugh, i seriously cringe thinking about our sex.


poxto28

I'm just here to represent us ladies with vulvodynia, vaginismus, vestibulodynia, etc who can't have PIV at all or need lots of preparation before even trying.


rinabean

I used to say that shit when mine was really bad. I feel like the way these conditions are treated, or basically not treated (the idea of numbing your genitals before sex is so utterly hateful), goes hand in hand with women for being shut down for saying what feels good. Women's sexual pleasure isn't even an afterthought, it's forbidden!


Revy_Ur_Engines

Dick determines the quality of sex for women. Now could a man with a small dick please a woman? Maybe. But I’m not trying to stick around and find out. I’ve been with average sized dicks that couldn’t fuck properly.


LeyMio

The truth must be very unbearable for men on Reddit. You can see those "ask women's opinion on men" posts on a daily basis. The only answers allowed to show up are the ones that defend men's ridiculously fragile feelings: "We don't care about your size/height/physical looks/wealth. As long as you do the bare minimum and wash your butt every once in a while, we PickMes will be more than happy to suck dicks!" It is like watching dressed-up clowns dancing in a shithole. Unfortunately, all the true opinions from women are hidden or deleted because of the toxic voting and moderating system of this website. LVMs are cowards who can only live their entire lives in lies.


Ironicseagull

Women are so obsessed with protecting fragile male ego's😭


riddlepoe

Finally, thank you for calling these guys out! I was so tired of reading posts on reddit “omG hE mAdE coMmeNtS abOut mY bOdY” and everyone telling the girl to chill out and stop being so insecure. It’s time to stop lowering standards for guys, and normalizing everything they do.


imalreadydead123

Meanwhile, those very same men will shame any woman who is not a 16 year old 90 -60-90.


bluemexicanblanket

it’s so funny to me the amount of men that lie about having 8 inch dicks. like i never knew they were lying until i met a man with an ACTUAL 8 inch dick. i was in heaven. it was no joke the size of an entire chrystal geiser water bottle. we measured. and i realized most of the men i’d been with that claimed to have 8 inches actually only had like 5 or MAYBE 6


WestAtmosphere

Also other than pleasure, a larger dick is just nicer to look at, and they are more fun to play with. I really doubt any man would get in trouble for saying "big boobs are more fun" or a "large ass in more pleasing to look at".


Zurflu

Yes, it's quite awkward "playing" with something that is smaller than your palm 😬


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yup, if I was any good at art I’d draw really dramatic paintings of big beautiful dicks. They’re so aesthetically pleasing 🤤


CuntWaffe

A lot of men complaining about being small are really just porn addicts with average dicks. They make themselves feel bad.


Zurflu

Aside from the fact that a lot of women can literally only (PIV) orgasm with a big dick those posts always ignore asthetics too... Big dicks look strong, juicy, masculine, and delicious. Tiny dicks look like disgusting baby flesh worms.


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💀💀 I was not ready for that murder.


Torrey_not_Kori

I like medium dicks. Too small and you can't feel it, too big and you get hit in the cervix over and over which is NOT pleasant. I told one ex that he was too big and he basically said bullshit since the vagina is meant for pushing out babies and his dick wasn't as big as a baby. 🙄 On the other hand I was honest when one ex asked how it felt and I told him I couldn't feel anything. Cuz he was like 2 inches and like dime sized around. He got so pissed.


CNhuman

Same!! Like, no. I don't want to get a cramp every time you over thrust, and you want to bottom out so that's a problem. And the vagina is ABLE to push out babies, but it's not exactly a pleasant experience. These dudes don't even know how rapey they sound when they say that they don't care if sex is a pleasant experience for you.


ragnarockette

Someone was asking me what I valued in a guy, because I (honestly) said height wasn’t something that really factored much into attraction for me. I didn’t actually tell them the truth but in my head I was like “big dick, great hair, thick wallet.”


sugarplumcutie

Period.


relationship_reddit

I'm done with lying to men that size doesn't matter. They're honest about their preferences, so why shouldn't we be?


Lazy-Ad-7805

Amen, sis. I used to say it doesn’t but then i realize i was lying to myself. All bc of the media saying it’s not supposed to. I feel so much better admitting that it does. It fucking does! I also do not lie about not having orgasms and instead look them dead straight in their eyes and watch them die on the inside.


youareboaners

Lol not only will these men ask they’ll ask if any pretty, fit, and model looking women that will find their unfit and small dick ass attractive. Like??


IAteTheDragon

I agree 100% and vote for big D ☝️


yolonny

I used to think I preferred smaller penis sizes, because sex would always be incredibly painful and I'd bleed or at least hurt for days. Turns out, it was just REALLY bad sex/rape. I think we are underestimating how big of a factor this is for women who say they like smaller penises. When you're used to sex being bad/not being aroused, smaller dick is preferred.


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Women who like small dicks have never cum. They "like" them because feeling close to nothing is better than being in pain


she_is_munchkins

I saw that post and was also so surprised how every woman who commented there said size doesn't matter. I mean maybe some woman may prefer smaller, but let's not lie and say size doesn't matter, it's just a very subjective thing as to what size you prefer. Personally I prefer my men on the bigger side. Not too large, but I need to feel you hitting that back wall.


NotMyRealName814

Honestly, I'm not super picky about size if the man is high value. The crazy thing is I've had a scrote tell me after about 4 or 5 dates that I was going to have to get a boob job if we were to become serious. Bear in mind that I am a C cup and in good shape & this sorry mofo was in, at best, average shape and had a freaky looking belly button that kinda weirded me out. I know he couldn't help that any more than I could control my bust size but after he told me that I just replied by telling him he needed to have his belly button fixed first. Then I blocked his worthless ass.


kangaskhaniscubones

Yep. Size matters. I feel bad for men that have small dicks, because they can’t change it. At the same time, my vagina isn’t a charity and I want to actually feel something when I have sex with someone.


Vaio200789

They have preferences for our size (both side to side and top to bottom) shape, hair texture, hair length, hair colour, skin colour, skin texture /perfection , boobs, eye nose lip and face shapes, do I need to go on? And they love to joke about /mock women and girls that have any one « flaw. » and they do it from a young age TO girls of a young age up to women of any age. Hilary clinton didn’t have a particular flaw so the media decided « pant suit » is a relèvent and funny insult. I wouldn’t have participated or posted about that subject personally but to treat it as the ONE thing you can never joke or softly express a preference of is ridiculous and hypocritical.


LovedDemons

Size matters. Definitely. I 'm not sure if I have a tight vagina or just hate being stretched because it hurts if anything too big goes in there, no matter the amount of lube. So I prefer smaller. Long but thin is amazing too! If you want bigger and that gets you off, go for bigger. It's about time we say size DOES matter: to women. If we don't like the size, big or small, they need to find someone who does want their size and stop bitching that they don't have fat dicks and blaming us for wanting them. It's ridiculous.


Connect_Chipmunk_691

I have to admit that I'm on the fence with this. Although leaning more towards the not criticizing body parts side. I hated when any of my boyfriends ever picked apart my body or body parts and I refuse to be like that especially over something somebody can't control. If the guy's a jackass or selfish in bed his dick size isn't going to matter. I've dated guys of various dick sizes and heights in the past and while too many of my boyfriends ended up being jerks the physical sex was always really good! They weren't selfish in bed, as in making sure I was pleasured & getting me off somehow more times than not. All of them were really good with oral and I didn't have to beg or ask for it. They could also find my clit. And back then none of us shaved anything unless you were going to the beach or the pool and it was only the bits you didn't want seen. Also none of us were into the crazy stuff that is trending nowadays. P*** also wasn't in existence the way it is now and we did not have the internet. That's not to say that dudes did not have access to it and that it wasn't an issue at all because it was, and it still made women feel like complete and utter s***, but nothing like it is today. I totally understand why women feel like this especially after how we've been treated by men. Over our bodies and with the stinginess/lack of satisfaction in the bedroom, etc. I just don't want to be like them about it. I hate their behavior because it's so freaking ugly.


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Connect_Chipmunk_691

Yeah I don't get why their whole entire identity's caught up in their dick either. I think this also goes back to men not being taught how to be men properly. They're not taught to be connected to their hearts and how important and vital that is because honestly you're not going to be grounded or rooted in your masculinity properly when that's not happening. Especially if you have any wounds going on because you will be nothing but toxic particularly in the romantic relationships. That can happen with women too with our own wounds but we don't go in the violent/abusive direction typically. I get preferences but I will say sometimes the right person is not going to come in the package you think they should and by that I don't mean compromise on anything and settle! It's a fine balancing act there because the good is always the enemy of the best. The more you get to know yourself and get solidly grounded in that the more you're able to discern what's best for you! 🥰💃🙏🤗


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OKAY BUT. Physically - I have a tilted uterus and super low cervix. Big dicks HURT. I had an ex who was a monster and let me tell you, a bruised cervix ain't nothing to fuck with. It's these waves of what I imagine contractions would feel like, and it goes on endlessly. Biologically I am not built for big dick. In my experience it's men with under-average that tend to THINK they're bigger. Or lil' drips thinking they're 'porn star loads' 🤮 my ex said to me, "I'm like a solid 8 inches," I just thought, "Buddy ya ain't even pushing 6 if you're not bottoming out." Men are so strange.


RecordingImportant94

The best sex I ever had was with a guy with a truly enormous dick. And actually, it wasn’t purely because of the size, he just knew he couldn’t skip foreplay and jackhammer away, he spent a looong time getting me aroused and ready and was then gentle and slow with the build of pace to make sure I was comfortable. I’m sure some women maybe do have a preference for a smaller dick, but purely because it will potentially hurt less when they are suffering through a scrote jackhammering. If these guys actually prioritised women’s pleasure then size wouldn’t matter so much, but the vast majority of men don’t bother with this and are only concerned with getting theirs.


lilac-hiraeth

Curved averaged sized dick for me please! Worst sex I had was with very small dicked men, just all around bad. Upon my separation I ordered a dildo and it’s definitely bigger than my preference so back to the sex shop!


Equal-Ear2312

I am here to say that size does matter. and men know this. and the tall men with small dicks that I've dated were so self-conscious about the size of their dicks that they brought it up constantly. and those that didn't bring it up constantly became more overt about hating women in general. there is so much small dick one can take in a lifetime. it's not worth it. I have yet to meet a small and short man who didn't resent women in one way or another. it's just as stress-inducing as dating a man that is tall but has a surprisingly small penis. men are so petty! men at work hate women if they do better projects. it's not healthy competitiveness... they would go as far as to trip you on the stairs and make jokes about pushing you to break your neck so they get picked. men are fucking crazy. I automatically sort through them via this pettiness meter. the more petty, I guess the smaller the penis. and even if it's not small by general standards (or average), they are still self-conscious and project this on women. men tell on themselves so much. fun fact: man with the biggest ego, most overt negs, always talking about what he did and how great he was (worked as a film director) had the smaller penis I've ever seen. I had zero orgasms. zero. also, no inclination to make up for that on his part, not even offering up to try and make me cum. fun fact #2: my friend started dating a lawyer back in 2019. he earned very well, usually sent he photos of the stuff he had lying around the house, of artwork, of limited edition objects, had multiple apartments, cars and so on. also had a micropenis and was quite dictatorial in the relationship. Napoleon syndrome? she dumped him asap. as a response, the guy told her something along the lines of: if you stayed with me, you would have your own car by now.


Gasperca

Honestly, IDGAF if they get offended, I love big dicks and won't lie about it. It's the girth for me. I hate what I call 'breadstick' dicks and had the luck to only run into one of those. Did not come back to it though 😂


soundslikeautumn

I fucking love this post so much! Size absolutely does matter to many, many women. If men can pick women's bodies apart down to the tiniest detail, women can and should absolutely have preferences about the dick that literally goes inside of her body. Also, men tend to think length is the only thing to take into account that matters. It's not only length, but girth, the size of the head in comparison to the shaft, the curvature and circumcision vs uncircumcised. These things all matter and can really change the way sex for women feels.


i_h8_m3

Why do we keep shpwing men empathy that we know they will never return. :/


kwhorona

I Mean who would like 🤏 ? 🙄


frostedgemstone

I love this energy. I too don’t give a flying fuck what anyone has to say about my preferences because it is *my* life on my terms, I will do as I please, and I don’t care who wants to call it “shallow.” The pickmes can have their scraps lol


Hmtnsw

And women who say size doesn't (average is fine or even a little below) as long as they actually know how to fuck because apparently all those women are just lying.


gouttrout

Well, I agree, but saying size doesn't matter shouldn't be controversial either.