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jcbolduc

I'm straight, but this one makes people of any gender more attractive (whether sexually or not) : A sincere love of a hobby and trying to spread it positively. As an example of a man that most could recognize that fits this: Henry Cavill and his love of Warhammer 40k and gaming. The sheer love of these hobbies you can see when he talks of them, completely unashamed, is clearly genuine and not there to "win points" with anyone. Guy just loves his glorious Custodes and questing.


Waaarrrggghhh

I'm not gay but I find a well kept and trimmed beard is attractive and I wish I could have one. defintely not gay at all..


The_gay_potato_

Congrats, you're gay.


UnknownYetSavory

How much he looks like Brad Pitt in Fight Club.


Ecstatic-Flounder-48

Veins on forearms - no homo.


[deleted]

The ass. Men have great asses


bloodmusthaveblood

As a woman, I agree! Men don't get enough credit for their asses


The_gay_potato_

I can't say the same


[deleted]

Not an ass man? Fair enough, different strokes


asleepbydawn

Are you asking this as a straight guy or a gay gu...err potato? lol


asleepbydawn

I agree 100%


ledubster

The dude in my mirror has a sexy beard


Dhydjtsrefhi

Same!


The_gay_potato_

Bro, can I meet him?


asleepbydawn

Shit... I didn't think you could see me.


Songshiquan0411

Butts and beefy dudes for me.


The_gay_potato_

Same


asleepbydawn

Physical: I love the wisps of hair on the sides and back of a guy's thighs. I love how a guy's hairy butt looks so specifically male... so defined, mysterious and inviting. I love the way the lines on a guy's groin lead into that beautiful curve around his sac. I love how a guy's penis gently flops as he walks. I love a guy's foreskin. I love the way a guy with a full bush looks so incredibly sexual and masculine. I love the way a guy's stomach looks especially when there's a trail of hair leading into his pubic area. I love the way a guys chest and nipples look. I love seeing guy's armpit hair... I love the way lean guys look with a the perfect amount of muscular definition. I love the scruff on a guy's face... I love a guy's smile... I love a guy's eyes. I love how a guy's penis can change in so many ways and do so many things different things. Non physical: love how complex guys are... but yet how simple it is to understand each other most times. I like easy going, funny, playful friendly guys, who are independent, quiet, but have a lot to say. Deep, interesting things. Knowledge about the world. Caring, empathetic.


bigtimebeaner

Preface by saying I am straight. I've always thought men are ugly as fuck. Don't understand what females see in us. Beards, dicks, balls, hairy asses. Don't know why dudes would ever get a hard on for another dude. Doesnt stop me from wanting to be as groomed and well physiqued as i can be but i still feel like i'm just polishing a turd. Do women ever get as absolutely grossed out at the thought of the female form? I can't imagine so, but has to be possible, right?


bloodmusthaveblood

As a woman I think it's more individual than the entire gender. Woman can be insecure about their looks and see themselves as "gross" or see another woman and see her as "gross" but as far as I know I don't know of any woman being grossed out by all females. Interesting to hear a man say that. It probably has a lot to do with media and the way society praises female beauty but a man's ability to work and earn a living. Also beards and body hair are top turn ons for me, same with messy hair, sweat, and dad bods.


asleepbydawn

Also has a lot to do with how men are socialized to see other men and how its factors into their perceived sense of masculinity. Women don't have that. But I think a lot of it is definitely social.


bloodmusthaveblood

Definitely. It's also socially acceptable for women to compliment their female friends and talk about female attractiveness without being suspected as gay. This doesn't seem to be the case for men, complimenting their male friends or acknowledging male attractiveness is much more taboo or grounds to feel insecure about their sexuality. At least from what I've noticed as a woman. Still very socially centered though for sure.


asleepbydawn

Yup... although I will say this has changed a lot. You have a lot of guys were are just as comfortable with that nowadays. But you still have those guys that are like "Nah... I'm straight!!! Men are disgusting!!!" lol Which is what I'm kinda referring to with the whole socialization thing.


bloodmusthaveblood

Totally! It's definitely nice to see that change happening. It's also very cultural as well, certain cultures/countries have progressed further than others in this regard. But a lot of young men didn't grow up hearing compliments from their father or other male role models the same way young women did from their mothers. I think each generation gets more and more comfortable with the idea.


bigtimebeaner

Thank you for that feedback!!


asleepbydawn

Dude... it all has to do with how you're 'wired.' There's nothing objectively more or less attractive in males or females. As a gay guy myself... I can say I don't understand what males see in females. I don't know why dudes would ever get a hardon for a woman. When women try to get groomed and look good... while everyone is oohing and ahhing over them... I could say the same thing... "just trying to polish turds" lol. Objectively I get see why people would find them attractive... and I know what makes a woman attractive objectively. And sure... there's women out there that I could say look good. But they do nothing for me sexually. On the flip side... everything that turns you off about dudes... dicks, balls, hairy butts... are absolute turnons for me and most gay guys. I could spend HOURS enjoying it all haha. It feels just as awesome, natural, and 'right' as I'm sure as it does when you're with a woman. My point is... like I said... it all comes down to what you happen to be into.


bigtimebeaner

Lol. It absolutely has to be wiring because I have no doubt how opposite we are in spite having the same chromosomes. Thanks for the feedback. I got a good laugh out of that honest view. Cheers!


The_gay_potato_

I mean, if you were gay it would be a bit easier to say, but it's strange


divineblessings4me

Lips and eyes.


The_gay_potato_

Agreed.


Lucky_Se7en_Again

Sexually: buttocks, foreskin, and low hanging testicles. Socially: intelligence, wisdom, and being equipped for the task (whatever it is. I dislike helpless men that don't even have basic tools or skills to handle basic tasks.) Romantically: nothing, because I am not interested in a relationship outside fwb or dirty Pic pals, but if I was looking, it would probably be the same for women. Honesty, commitment, support, and a mutually supportive drive for self-improvement and not starting drama for no reason. And a respect for privacy.


Glenn_Maffews

We men can totally transform our look with facial hair styles.


a_fozzy_

Nothing


manhunt64

Good honest values and future goals to help those around them.


slwrthnu_again

Putting in effort to how they look. I’m also a straight dude so mainly I’m just trying to steal your style.


TheNotSpecialOne

Great beard and sharp suit


[deleted]

Nothing. We're disgusting creatures.


asleepbydawn

If only you knew how not true that is lol


[deleted]

Not being gay, I find other men repulsive. We're big, hairy, and smell bad.


asleepbydawn

Haha... as a gay guy... that's kinda how I feel about women. I mean... not all guys are big, I myself like a guy that's about the same size as myself. I do like body hair... huge turn on for sure. But not sure about the 'smelling bad' part lol. Any guy that keeps himself clean shouldn't smell bad.


[deleted]

> But not sure about the 'smelling bad' part lol. Any guy that keeps himself clean shouldn't smell bad. I should probably have said musky, which, granted, I find to be a very unpleasant smell, hence why I shower twice daily.


clhawks

I'm none of the above


Pathfinder91606

Every so often, very rare, you find someone who displays Valor and Moral Courage.


Jazzlike_Grand_7227

Whether it’s men or women, a voice can be super attractive. I have complimented both genders on their voice before, and it’s like they don’t get it - wait, what? I have a nice voice??


[deleted]

Not really gay, but determination.